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I have admired your work for many years now, and benefitted enormously from your calm delivery of immensely practical suggestions. I wish your writing could be absorbed into my DNA.

— Olivia Norton

Thank you for these wonderful and practical tools! I need them just about NOW. I have had a block to listening well lately, despite the fact that I teach compassionate listening. These questions will help me focus and self-differentiate.

— Elizabeth Givler

Super-helpful tools abound! This morning am listening on my commute (again!). Such tactical advice – I take notes on my phone and put the advice to use almost immediately with the teams I lead. Thank you!

— Lrenn42

@tammylenski you’ve outdone yourself with this indispensable tool for #mediation & #conflictresolution.

— Mthimkulu Mashiya

Excellent article. ‘Discord by itself does not determine if a relationship can thrive’
How to disagree better via @tammylenski.

— Alec Coakley

‘Anger is a signal and this question helps us figure out its message.’ Thank you @tammylenski for sharing these ideas to turn our anger into curiosity!

— The Ripple Effect Education

Fabulous way to view things! Wonderful @tammylenski.

— Overthinking Conflict

Thanks and please keep them coming. If we all produced as many great articles as you do more conflict would be resolved, more quickly.

— John Hind

You are the type of thoughtful leader we need in the ADR world.

— Colm Brannigan

Gems, per usual, from Tammy Lenski.

— Amy Hartmann Martell

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— Elisabet Anderson

Another brilliant piece of wisdom.

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Love your wisdom.

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By an order of magnitude, Tammy Lenski’s work has had the greatest impact on my personal and professional life. Not only has her work made me a better parent, partner and friend, it has made me a better professional.

— Samantha Gayfer

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— Gayll Phifer-Houseman

@tammylenski offers exciting ways to manage yourself in conflict. Based in research and experience, her methods are useful and intuitive — and they work!

— Judy Ringer

Tammy always has wisdom to share, and is exactly the kind of reflective practitioner I value very highly and aspire to be in my work!

— Sam Hardy

I work in HR and conflict resolution is a big part of my job. Her tips on approaches, techniques and strategies are spot on and incredibly insightful.

— Tay State of Mind

As always, wise and practical advice from @tammylenski for how to deal with conflict when working from home.

— Kari Boyle

QueryCards: These are really lovely and powerful! ⁦Thank you ⁦@tammylenski.

— Dr. Jan Burkina

Great content! Short episodes, to the point, and very helpful on conflict resolution for personal life and work.

— Victoriazzzzzz

5 ways to deal proactively with #conflict while working from home during the #coronavirus outbreak : as always a very positive and inspiring post. Thank you @tammylenski!

— MediationStudio

Thank you for this, and your ‘Day job’ book. After practicing law for nearly thirty years I started building my conflict management practice about two years ago, and your book brought some fresh and helpful insights. Now for ‘The Conflict Pivot’.

— Andre Vlok

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— Diana Brown

@tammylenski Thank you for your blog. I have found your suggestions to be incredibly useful in my line of #conflict work.

— Rev. Dave Thompson

De-escalate anger with this straightforward invitation. More wise words from @tammylenski.

— John Ford

@tammylenski in my Chicago Tribune today. A virtuoso at concise and helpful responses to questions about conflict.

— Glenn Snow

These are absolutely brilliant! Thank so much Tammy for your generosity and wisdom.

— Trish Lui

Your insights and tools have deepened and enhanced my relationships as well as my mediation practice. Thank you.

— Nancy Radford

Short, useful, meaningful. Every episode leaves me with a nugget to try and and an inspiring story to make it memorable. I’m really grateful for this podcast – it really makes a difference.

— Kathrynj168

‘Upstream conflict resolution’ @tammylenski Nice piece Tammy. Thank you! In #OpenSource we talk about upstream all the time because it is the only place to get code issues resolved properly.

— Donna Benjamin

I am so grateful that you and your ideas are part of my community of practice! Thank you for challenging me to think about hard things in new ways.

— Mindful Resolution

Re-framing is the ‘art of choosing words that speak to the listener as powerfully as they do to the speaker.’ From the fabulous mediator’s toolbox of @tammylenski.

— Deborah Graham

Thanks to Tammy Lenski for wise tips for addressing conflict.

— Ian Goodman

A shadow side to good listening – Conflict Resolution via @tammylenski. A very insightful blog.

— JLS Solicitors

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— Kristina Karan

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— Carrie Bennett

My primary dispute resolution mentor, @tammylenski speaks to miscommunication in conflict and how to minimize it. This learning should not be missed.

— Larry Bridgesmith