QueryCards

by Tammy Lenski

My QueryCards will help you disagree better. Bookmark them on your phone and use the question prompts to think through an interaction whenever or wherever you are. Use the questions to help others, too.

  • What's holding my attention?
  • What else could this be?
  • What's the most important thing?
  • A week from now will this have mattered?
  • It's real but is it true?
  • What is the problem we're trying to solve?
  • Why am I this angry?
  • How has this affected me?
  • Who am I to be?
  • What is the wish behind the criticism?
  • Am I being seen? Am I seeing?
  • What is the next right thing?
  • What would love do now?