If you’ve been told not to take conflict personally, you only have half the story. Conflict in business and personal relationships can be deeply personal.
The key to your freedom is knowing why certain conflicts get their hooks into you, and what you can do to liberate yourself. This is a book about finding that key in order to resolve nagging conflict and prevent inconsequential conflict from cluttering your life.
In The Conflict Pivot, veteran mediator, coach, and conflict resolution teacher Tammy Lenski shares the powerful, simplified approach she developed over the course of a decade to transform conflict into peace of mind. Now you, too, can pivot away from what keeps you stuck in conflict and toward what will free you from ongoing tension at work or home.
Reader accolades: A sampling
This is one of those life-changing books. – Trish Lui
A simple guide, a simple formula, relationship-saving wisdom. – Chuk Campos
The world might be better off if a bunch of us all bought an extra copy to give out. – Steve Staten
One of the best and most accessible books I’ve read in my years as a conflict resolution professional. – Lorraine Segal
Helped me to tell my story, gain clarity, take the right action and find peace again without relying on the (mis)understanding by the other person. – Ann De Boer
Gold for anyone looking to streamline interactions with others. – Sara Keenan
Original, well-written, with practical user-friendly techniques for managing conflict even if you don’t completely resolve it. – C. Parr
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Using the pivots
- Conflict pivots at work
- Conflict pivots at home
- The leader’s guide to conflict pivots
- The mediator’s guide to conflict pivots