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When conflict is real but not true

27 February 2020 by

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What would love do now?
A week from now, will this have mattered?
It's real but is it true?
How has this affected me?
Am I being seen? Am I seeing?
What's the most important thing?
What is the wish behind the criticism?
What is the problem WE are trying to solve here?
What is the next right thing?
Who do I want to be?
What else could this be?
What's holding my attention?
Why am I this angry?

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