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9 December 2015 by Tammy Lenski

"The more I did my mediator stuff, the angrier my husband seemed to get." - Kate

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"The more I did my mediator stuff, the angrier my husband seemed to get." - Kate

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"The more I did my mediator stuff, the angrier my husband seemed to get." - Kate

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What's the most important thing?
How has this affected me?
A week from now, will this have mattered?
What is the problem WE are trying to solve here?
What else could this be?
Why am I this angry?
What's holding my attention?
Am I being seen? Am I seeing?
It's real but is it true?
What would love do now?
What is the next right thing?
Who do I want to be?
What is the wish behind the criticism?

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