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20 March 2017 by Tammy Lenski

The more we run from conflict, The more it masters us; The more we try to avoid it, The more it controls us. – David Augsburger

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The more we run from conflict, The more it masters us; The more we try to avoid it, The more it controls us. – David Augsburger

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