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The concise guide to interpersonal conflict resolution

20 December 2010 by Tammy Lenski

I’ve written a short guide is intended to give you a concise overview of interpersonal conflict resolution at work or home.

If you’re intrepid and willing to experiment, the ideas presented here will point you in a direction.

Conflict is complicated and most of us cannot possibly remember a long recipe of things to do and not do during a conflict conversation. So, the guide is decidedly minimalist and attempts to focus your energy and attention on the places you have the greatest likelihood of shifting the conflict to a better place.

Find the guide here: The Concise Guide to Interpersonal Conflict Resolution

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