Try counterfactual thinking instead.
The space between
The space between” is the figurative terrain between them and us, between where we are and where we want to be, and between who we are and who we want to be when we’re in a difficult conversation.
What is the real issue?
Real is a rabbit in a bramble patch.
A conflict resolution mini-manifesto
Five ways to stop “less-than”-ing during conflict and conflict resolution.
Is a distancing spiral quietly damaging your important relationship?
Avoidance isn’t always a bad idea, but when it feeds a distancing spiral it sure is.
Introducing QueryCards
Self-coaching questions for conflict resolution.
When opinions contrast sharply, practice scales
There’s a whole lotta gray between the black and the white.