3 questions for choosing the right tool at the right time.
Conflict resolution podcast: The space between
A conflict resolution podcast about getting better results from our most difficult and important conversations at work and home. "The space between" is the figurative terrain between them and us, between where we are and where we want to be, and between who we are and who we want to be when we’re in a difficult conversation.
Beliefs can and do create social reality.
We’ll call this the George Takei method.
Use the psychology of agreement to start your conversation right.
It’s all about frame of reference.
The best kind of experiment.
“At what point do I get to be the one to talk?”
Welcome to Do-Land.
For once, labels are a good thing.
Thank you, Universe.
Prevent your natural negativity bias from hijacking your smarts.
Fallback criteria save the day. Again.
Another cognitive trap just waiting to spring on you.
Listening is not just waiting to talk.
It’ll steer you wrong.
That damn gravity.
Find a quiet spot for two minutes.
Stop trying to wrangle people into things. It’s way too much work.
A soft start is just the ticket.
Use a centering question to get your balance back.
I blew my top and my friend surprised me.
Don’t fall for the sunk cost fallacy.
Don’t go it alone. Take these questions with you.
The signal sent may not be the signal received.
Less is more.
When your mouth gets ahead of good judgment.
Psst: It’s not about “resolution.”
Move away from that keyboard.