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25 March 2016 by Tammy Lenski

How reframing a single question can help us overcome obstacles

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How reframing a single question can help us overcome obstacles

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What is the next right thing?
What is the problem WE are trying to solve here?
What's holding my attention?
What's the most important thing?
What would love do now?
A week from now, will this have mattered?
How has this affected me?
What is the wish behind the criticism?
Who do I want to be?
What else could this be?
Am I being seen? Am I seeing?
Why am I this angry?
It's real but is it true?

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